My latest %26quot;boyfriend%26quot; has a foot fetish. He gets excited seeing me in heels, he lays on compliments about my ankles, the specific way my feet look in the heels, the way my calves look when I wear heels, how they make me walk differently. He even likes that they are, as heels often can be for women, a bit uncomfortable, because this provdes that added bonus of him later getting the chance to massage my feet (which he is great at). He also likes to sniff my shoes. All this foot focus makes my feet ache, makes me spend more time for pedicures (though he pays for them). The sniffing makes me self-conscious as well. I try to deal with this because he absolutely awesome in other ways. He%26#039;s a great guy, but this is my one annoyance with him.
Anyone familair with this, have tips on stoppin/reducing the behavior? And, finally, anyone know who makes COMFORTABLE %26amp; SEXY heels? cause that wld help SOME of the problem.
MY BF%26#039;s foot fetish...how can i deal with it? Where to get comfortable, sexy heels?
I would say it is an obsession. If you think about it his behavior is selfish and mostly one sided. He is using you as a masturbation aid. Why doesn%26#039;t he give you the pedicures himself? It is all about him being aroused. Why does he need to be aroused so much? Without professional therapy I am not sure if you can cool his jets. If he likes you only for your feet than he could leave you. You could tell him that you are more than your feet. You don%26#039;t want him to buy you anymore shoes. Wear comfortable shoes. You could wear high heels one night per week when you go out for the evening. If pheromones are real your feet and shoes are filled with them and they arouse him at a deep primitive level.
He needs some balance in his fetish. The best thing you can do is think of your comfort. Tell him what your needs are as far as being made comfortable with his fetish. He will either accept your terms or leave you.
Reply:Some guys like boobs, and looking at Playboy magazines... Let him get some foot fetish pics to turn him on so you don%26#039;t have to do all the work...then when he%26#039;s ready to go you%26#039;ll be there waiting! :-) www.geocities.com/swtfeet07 Report It
Reply:Men aren%26#039;t dogs, you don%26#039;t %26quot;stop or reduce their behavior.%26quot; The best thing you can do is either find that pair of comfortable heels (I hear that heels that are the same width as the rest of the shoe are more comfortable), or tell him you%26#039;d like an occasional break. %26quot;look, you%26#039;re great, and I don%26#039;t mind accommodating your fetish, but when my feet start hurting give me a rest from it.%26quot; If he doesn%26#039;t understand that then he needs a smack in the head, given how lucky he is to have someone willing to accommodate him.
Reply:I%26#039;m not sure what style you prefer (or more importantly I guess that he prefers) but I%26#039;ve found Steve Madden shoes to be quite comfortable compared with others. I don%26#039;t really wear the stiletto style much (I have trouble walking on them), but I wear other styles that still put your foot at that angle (just with more to balance on). I do have one pair of 4 in stiletto Steve Maddens that I rarely wear and from what I can recall, they weren%26#039;t that bad pain wise. I%26#039;ve worn some chunky heals that hurt every part of my foot from the ankle to the toes after 15 min. Make sure to get a god fit, whatever you buy. I bought shoes a little to big cause I they were super cute, they matched my outfit, and they didn%26#039;t have my exact size. My foot slid in and out every step and tore up my ankles.
Reply:thats not a fetish, thats being a man. heels make your legs look longer and your butt tighter. the uh sniffing, i dont know, how much do you love this guy. if you do, deal with it.
Reply:I don%26#039;t think they%26#039;re such thing as comfortable heels.
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