Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What Did I Do So Wrong?

I thought this guy liked me, so to test the waters I emailed him to ask about the homework assignment. After that, I added %26quot;By the way, I don%26#039;t know if it was your cologne or just soap, but you smelled really good today. %26quot; Was that going too far, did I scare him? I was trying to hint that I liked his flirting, but he didn%26#039;t respond. He just told me the homework assignment!





Here is what happened before all of this:





There is this guy in one of my classes. Today, there was not a lot of room at the table, so when he sat by me he was pretty close. Our elbows and arms repeatedly touched and when I picked my notebook up for a few seconds, he stretched his arm across my side of the table. He also kept putting his leg close to mine and when our feet touched it was like he was massaging my foot with his shoe; it wasn%26#039;t subtle at all

What Did I Do So Wrong?
It sounds like he%26#039;s interested, so now uv let him know ur interested, all u have to do now is sit back and wait for him to make the next move, dont worry, he probably didnt know what to say in the e-mail, but dont u worry he%26#039;ll make a move. Dont u chase him though, u just wait right there, be as cool as a cucumber and this time next week he%26#039;ll be eating out of the palm of your hand.
Reply:keep pestering him it sounds like hes realy into you
Reply:Your comment wasn%26#039;t charming enough but he likes you though.





the %26#039;or just soap, but you smelled really good today%26#039; part implied that he was filthy and you%26#039;re being sarcastic about it.





%26#039;I love the smell of your cologne%26#039; would have been a better comment. Nice try.





now, your homework is...


to explain to him you%26#039;re new to charming men but you would like to know more about him.





learn about flirting with men in books you find in book shops (do not rely on the library books to give you brilliant insight on such matters unless it%26#039;s part of a reading list given out by a flirting self help programme or a really good book that works).





good luck
Reply:saying things like you smell really good today is fine.. but sometimes it can seem weird over the internet. if a guy emailed me that i smelled good today i would think it was a little wierd and that hes too shy to talk to me like that in person and a little weird for remembering that i smelled good hahah idk i dont think its that big of a deal but next time say stuff like that in person.. at least untill you guys are pretty close. and with the foot thing. if it was me and some guy did that to me, i wouldve said something or looked at him to see if he smiled or what he was thinking. but yeah.. i dont think you did anything wrong and next time he does something like that, look at him and see if he exchanges the look.. and if he looks at you but doesnt smile or do anything flirty, look down at his elbow or feet (what ever he%26#039;s doing) then look back up at him and give him a playful nudge or something hahah idk thats what i would do. that way its not like akward or something. oh and im guessing this is the same guy? hahah sorry if i misunderstood. i still hope my advice helped a little
Reply:It seems you acted a lot less forwardly than he did and you were subtly reciprocated his attention, so don%26#039;t worry. Except unless someone else was doing his homework and received his email from you :P
Reply:you were too forward...sigh...you%26#039;re going to have to be more subtle than that.
Reply:who knows...



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