Wednesday, April 15, 2009

What Did I Do So Wrong?

I thought this guy liked me, so to test the waters I emailed him to ask about the homework assignment. After that, I added %26quot;By the way, I don%26#039;t know if it was your cologne or just soap, but you smelled really good today. %26quot; Was that going too far, did I scare him? I was trying to hint that I liked his flirting, but he didn%26#039;t respond. He just told me the homework assignment!





Here is what happened before all of this:





There is this guy in one of my classes. Today, there was not a lot of room at the table, so when he sat by me he was pretty close. Our elbows and arms repeatedly touched and when I picked my notebook up for a few seconds, he stretched his arm across my side of the table. He also kept putting his leg close to mine and when our feet touched it was like he was massaging my foot with his shoe; it wasn%26#039;t subtle at all

What Did I Do So Wrong?
Don%26#039;t worry, your cool, its ok that you commented. A smoother way to say it might be,


%26#039;By the way, I like your cologne%26#039;.


To cause him to respond, you add a question,


%26#039;What kind do you wear?%26#039;


He%26#039;s probably flattered that you noticed. But don%26#039;t worry, because by what you said, he seems interested.


Good luck.
Reply:he could be just a crazy flirt some peole are flirting and dont even realize it. it does seem like hes attracted to u though and u never know wen u mentioned his smell he could have just had his mind on something else at the moment and been busy i saw just the next time u see him see how he acts
Reply:It sounds to me like he might like you or be really good friends with you. He could be embarrassed though by you saying that you liked how he smelt today of the fact that you could have been implying he smelt bad today... If that makes any sense. I would see how things go today. If they look good, ask him out... If not than obviously don%26#039;t ask him out.
Reply:It%26#039;s possible that either he didn%26#039;t read the whole email (guys tend to just breeze through stuff) or maybe he is still thinking about a response. I wouldn%26#039;t say anything else, let him make the next move. Don%26#039;t act hurt around him that he hasn%26#039;t responded yet. Just be patient.



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